Female
Orgasm – Three Great Positions For Maximum Pleasure!
By Sacha Tarkovsky
We have already
looked at what the female orgasm is in other articles, here we are
going to look at how you and your partner can achieve satisfying
orgasms and enhance your relationship.
The conditions
must be correct for your partner to achieve orgasm, both partners
must be relaxed and in a comfortable setting and feel totally at
ease.
The feeling
of anxiety must not be present, as well as the moods of both partners
must be happy and without care. This psychological aspect is somehow
as important as the physical ones.
Relax
and set the mood with foreplay
To achieve orgasm, as much foreplay as possible must be performed.
In most cases, and where the woman wishes it, cunnilingus is very
effective.
In fact, if cunnilingus
is properly performed the woman will reach an initial orgasm. It should
take on the average about 20 minutes. See the net-planet article on
cunnilingus for the correct and effective procedures. Do not stop
however, as the larger and more important orgasm is yet to come.
Three
positions for great female orgasm
There are three positions that almost insure a long and pleasurable
female orgasm. Do not attempt any of the three without adequate
foreplay (or the cunnilingus as above).
The first position
has many names, but as mentioned in the Perfumed Garden (a classic
Arabic text from the golden age of Arabic Literature), it is called
Dok-al-Arz, or “pounding on the spot”. This position assures
3 important factors in copulation. The first is depth of the penis.
The second is the “G-Spot angle” and the third is maximum clitoral stimulation.
To achieve this
position the man sits on the edge of the bed, and the woman sits
on the man, inserting his penis deeply into her vagina. She then
wraps her legs around him, as well as her arms. The couple is free
to kiss if desired.
Then the woman
begins a slow grinding movement (no thrusting is possible). She
is able to stimulate simultaneously her clitoris and G-Spot. The
orgasm comes quickly and with great intensity.
Should the man
be able to ejaculate into her womb as she is finishing, the result
is only intensified. The woman will love the man greatly if performed
well.
The second position
also has a great many names, but is commonly knows as The Gates
of Heaven.
To perform this
the woman lies on her back. The man lies or kneels in alignment
with the vagina. The man will hold (or press with his shoulder)
the woman's leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman's
pelvis. This position, as believed by some, achieves a faster and
more intense type of female orgasm.
This can be
accomplished through lifting the women's leg(s) higher upwards;
the deeper the man's penis can fully go in.
Again, there
is both clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. Again, there is very little or no thrusting, but a
slow and steady grinding movement. If the woman and man can grind
in rhythm, the effect is only heightened.
The third position
is a variation of the second, and is called Crab on its Back. This
position, like the previous two assures maximum clitoral and G-Spot
stimulation. This position allows for some thrusting.
The woman lies
on her back with a cushion beneath her buttocks, and the man kneels
or lies on top of her while pressing her thighs hard against her
chest. The vagina will be tighter and the cervix will be pushed
forward, so the penis presses against the cervix when thrusting,
with a corresponding intensity of sensation. The result is often
a very quick and immediate orgasm (or series of orgasms) of the
woman.
Achieving satisfaction
The practicing of these three positions will give you and your partner
a lot of pleasure and if done correctly can help her achieve wonderful
orgasms to enhance and fulfill your relationship with each other. Don't forget about enhancement gels, they also serve as a useful lubricant! Try:
For more free
information on Female sexual issues including, satisfaction, health
and a variety of related subjects visit: http://www.net-planet.org/sexhealth.html
Recommended
Reading: Click on the text for more or to purchase the
book.
Orgasms
for Two - by Betty Dodson. Practical ideas
for improving sexual skills so men and women can add extra dimensions
of excitement and pleasure to their lovemaking, with drawings.
Sex
for One: The Joy of Selfloving
For more than 20 years, Betty Dodson has been dedicated to taking
the shame out of masturbation, showing it to be a healthy form of
sexual expression. With informative line drawings, Dodson explains
how anyone can learn to fully enjoy the pleasures of self-love.
What
Your Mother Never Told You about Sex! - by Dr. Hutchinson - After more than twenty years in gynecological practice, Dr. Hutcherson
addresses what she sees as an overwhelming ignorance about sexual
matters that dramatically impacts the lives of women of all ages.
Great book, great for all couples!
Love-Scent.com - Pheromones
